Hands-on Training
in Skill Based Coparenting




"Since finishing the Coparenting training I have found myself interacting with divorced parents in an entirely new way. I now teach Coparenting monthly and find the experience completely rewarding. It's like giving every family a whole new beginning."

Shirley Thomas, Ph.D.,
Author of Parents Are Forever

Intensive Workshop

We provide an intensive, one and one-half day training workshop for individuals or agencies interested in starting Coparenting classes in their own communities. Typically, the first half of the workshop begins early in the afternoon on Friday and concludes after a group dinner. This format duplicates the actual experience of parents enrolled in our three-part Coparenting program. Another parallel is the requirement for trainees to complete some homework before returning the next day for the remainder of the workshop.

Scripts and Mock Participation

In preparation for the training, participants receive individualized 'scripts', which serve as a basis for simulations of divorced parents taking part in a Coparenting class. The step-by-step training progresses in exactly the same sequence as an actual Coparenting class. Over one and one-half days, trainees are mock participants in a highly structured ten-hour intervention. Ample time is allowed for trainees to step out of their assigned roles and ask questions. The two trainers, in turn, frequently interrupt the 'group process' to comment on strategies for dealing with difficult class members. The focus, then, is on providing trainees with an experience representative of both participants and instructors working their way through our Coparenting program.

Follow-up Consultation Provided

We expect trainees to have some trepidation about plunging into teaching Coparenting on their own - once removed from the support and guidance so liberally available during the workshop. In keeping with the emphasis placed on encouragement in everything we do, we make ourselves available on pretty much an unlimited basis to provide follow-up consultation. This service is included in the fee for training.

Where can you train?

Training takes place either on-site in our Southern California office or, by arrangement, in a local venue. The ideal number of trainees is between eight and ten - another parallel to the actual Coparenting class. The fee for our 'in-house' training is $500 per individual, inclusive of all materials (including the entire Coparenting curriculum, text, and follow-up consultation). We quote costs for off-site training based on our travel time and expenses, number of participants, and considerations such as whether an organization is for-profit or non-profit. Click here to learn more!

Who can become an instructor?

Who is suitable to undergo our training, and become a Coparenting instructor? The answer is simple! Anyone with good 'people skills' and, in addition, some degree of passion about being a 'change agent' for families struggling with the challenges of divorce.

Our trainees in the past have included mental health professionals, attorneys, social workers, custody evaluators, mediators, and individuals in various phases of higher education.

We would very much welcome people from other walks of life - such as clergy, schoolteachers, and retired, but nonetheless wise 'elders'. Credentials are far less relevant to success as a Coparenting instructor than a strong inner desire to make a profound contribution to the lives of people in a time of transition. On this note, we will paraphrase what virtually every Coparenting instructor (ourselves included) has said:

"Rarely if ever in one's adult worklife is there to be found a level of gratification to match that which befalls instructors, as a matter of routine, in teaching Coparenting.

Our community has desperately needed this type of intervention, and has responded very well to it. Our 'graduates' have contacted us from a year ago and more, to let us know they are still using the skills they learned, by practicing them together, in the course. This kind of course is needed across the country."

Valerie Hale, Director,
Sugarhouse Family Counseling and Education
Center, Salt Lake City

 

Dr. Herold is a master at training professionals to facilitate intensive coparenting classes. His warm, entertaining style and willingness to consult after trainings is invaluable to experts who work with him. I wholeheartedly recommend that anyone venturing into the world of teaching extended coparenting take advantage of Les Herold's training expertise."

Shirley Thomas
Longmont, Colorado



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